The art of dealing with a man

The character of the man

Scientists differ in their analyzes about the extent of harmony between men and women and the similarity of their personalities, while some scholars say that men differ from women in terms of the strength and dominance with which they are imprinted and appear in their relationships, while women are characterized by tenderness, passion, softness, and sensitivity that dominate their relationships, but regardless Regardless of the amount of difference and similarity, both spouses remain complementary to each other, and together they share the making of relationships with love, cordiality, spiritual harmony, and harmony of their hearts; In order to have a happy and stable life together.

The art of dealing with a man

A man needs to feel the affection and love of his partner, and her good dealings with him, which achieves the satisfaction of both of them about the relationship and their happiness together, and the woman can make her partner feel this through her effective way of dealing with him, which is by the following technical methods:

Good communication with him

Good communication appears as an art of dealing, and the basis for the relationship with the man, and this is through the following manifestations

• Share the dialoguePositive dialogue is an effective part of communication through the two partners speaking together calmly and smoothly, and the woman giving her partner an opportunity to express his opinion, discuss it, ask him and ask for his suggestions and guidance that serve the future of the relationship and make it more healthy and stable.
• listen to him: A woman must improve her listening skills, and give her partner the right to express his opinion freely and fluently without interrupting him, and understand what he says well before preparing to respond to it, and she can ask him when there is a misunderstanding or confusion over her, and in return he listens to her and gives her the freedom to express her opinion and inform him.
• understand his feelings: A woman can better understand her partner's feelings when she puts herself in his place, imagines the situation more accurately from the angle he sees, and feels him more, especially when he is upset, which leaves a deep impact on him and brings them closer.
• Give him a private spaceThe parties in a healthy relationship need a private space away from the other partner, and the man takes his opportunity to sit with himself, or spend time with his friends without disturbing his partner, which will make him happy and more satisfied with his relationship with her, and in return she uses her private time to practice her hobbies and activities, and enjoy it away. About him increases her longing for him, and her desire to communicate with him after his absence.

The ability to give and to receive love

A man needs to feel his partner’s love for him, and her happiness with him through her expression of these deep feelings to him in several ways, either through direct and gentle conversation with him, or through good behaviors and good dealings that indicate great affection and intimacy towards him, and we do not forget the importance of a woman’s love and concern for herself, which is reflected in Her relationship with him, as the woman's self-satisfaction, confidence in her, and self-love will make her able to give more, and thus grant these feelings to her partner with sincerity and affection.

Taking care of him and taking care of him

Some men are unable to express and express their feelings fluently and without hesitation, and therefore he may feel pain and discomfort and at the same time stand idly by and unable to tell his partner about it, and here comes the role of the woman in dealing with him in a correct way that encourages him to reveal, by always taking care of him, and showing interest And love for him, good communication and asking about his conditions regularly, and listening to him without interrupting him as mentioned previously, as interrupting him continuously may lead him to silence, and hesitation to talk to the woman more boldly and frankly, and do not forget the gentle smile that spreads peace and reassurance in him, and makes him happy with interest His partner and her warm feelings, and her tender and sincere emotions with him, so he tends to her more, and resorts to talking to her and getting close to her constantly.

Trust and depend on him

Trust plays an important role in the relationship of a man and a woman, and it is also an essential matter that makes him want to protect her more, maintain their healthy relationship and strive for that, and trust in him is through the following manifestations:

• Encouraging the man and making him aware of his great masculinity, which his partner respects by trusting him and being proud of his outstanding skills and abilities.
• Believing in his abilities and relying on him in various tasks, giving him the opportunity to make a decision and trusting in his choice.

Accept that there are differences between them

Most men get angry at the negative criticism of female partners from time to time, which expresses their rejection of their different nature and personalities, and their lack of acceptance of differences with them, while the success of relationships requires the parties to respect each other, and each of them accepts the other’s personality with its positives and disadvantages, and gets used to it, with the possibility of providing advice. Guidance and support for each other to change, provided that it is done in a gentle and polite way that does not make him feel negative criticism, or his partner's dissatisfaction with him, and cause him aversion and annoyance, or his thinking that they are not suitable for each other.

The art of dealing with a difficult and stubborn man

The stubborn and hard-to-please man needs patience and deliberation, and controlling the nerves in order to convince him and talk to him flexibly and smoothly, through the following methods of dealing:

• Examine his feelings and support him: As the man's stubbornness may be due to his feeling of instability, or discomfort towards a specific and important decision for him, and therefore the woman's listening to him, and supporting his decision will make him feel more comfortable and calm, and make him flexible and easy to deal with, and make a correct and joint decision that serves the interest of both parties.
• Emphasis on equality and shared responsibility between themThe woman must explain to her partner the importance of joint marital work, the benefit of consultation and their making a correct decision together, sharing its responsibility and its consequences together, and ensuring that they continue to share activities and decisions hand in hand always; To make him realize the importance of equality and harmony between them and their impact on the relationship.
• Express her feelings towards him honestly and affectionatelyThe woman’s frankness to the man is beneficial for her great love for him, her interest in his happiness, and her desire to keep their relationship healthy and stable in making him feel comfortable, trusting her more, accepting her participation in dialogue and discussion, and making decisions as two harmonious partners together in friendship and love.
• Accept the husband: As the woman's rejection of her stubborn partner, and her showing a strong desire to change him, or criticizing him in a negative way may multiply his stubbornness, and make him increase with time, while accepting him and talking to him with kindness and paper may have the opposite effect that helps him change, and makes him accept advice and guidance from her.