How do I write memories for my girlfriend?

There is no doubt that each of us would like to talk about himself to a friend or relative, but the human being suffers from shortcomings in terms of forgetfulness at times, and mistakes at other times, so many people try to write memories of their days, because the past is beautiful, and its beauty is as old as it is, so everything is old. An antique has its value, and the value increases as time goes further.

But someone may ask: How do I write memories? For the answer, here, dear reader, are steps that will help you, God Almighty willing, in writing down memories. However, before embarking on them, you should know that memories have the following characteristics:

1. Memories are titles scheduled on an agenda, and it would be preferable if they were in one book that includes years and years.

2. Memories are events that happen to us once a year or once in a lifetime. Not everything that happens is written down.

3. Memories are the tips of pens, so they should not be elaborated except where the elaboration is useful. This is usually important in the lives of leaders and leaders of change, and not in every country, but rather in the hours of change. For example, a leader like the late Gamal Abdel Nasser can elaborate on the events of the days. The few that preceded the July 23 revolution.

4. Memories need to be monitored daily, but days may pass in which there is nothing new. It is okay not to write, but do not let an important event miss you, but rather record it in its day.

It is nice to mention in your memories a piece of wisdom or a proverb that shows the psychological position, and what you benefited from this event on that day, then after a year what was your impression? And after another year, and so on, because this is what teaches you a lot in life, such as the fact that many people’s impressions and outlooks change. Events will improve as the days go by, but if he sees that the curve is declining, he should correct himself and deal with the effects of this event on him.

The appropriate steps for writing memories are as follows:

1. Prepare dated schedules of events for each day with space for notes and notes.

2. Write the events that happened to you on the same day, in a brief but clear form, and elaborate if the length does not make the reader feel bored.

3. Write the events transparently. Admitting your mistakes is better than justifying them.

4. Do not forget to write your impression and benefits in green and a different color to show that it is your impression and not among the events.

5. There is no need to write down mistakes that God has covered for you unless they have profound effects or people discover them later.

6. Tactical mistakes must be mentioned, such as a political or social mistake. Admitting a mistake is better than continuing with it.

7. Names should not be mentioned in the context of slander or explicit insult, as this is not appropriate for creators of glory, ideas, and minds.

8. You should know that this book may fall into the hands of people, so be entrusted with their minds, ideas, trends, and inclinations.

With this, my brother, you will have a beautiful writing of memories, and if you succeed in writing your memories from birth to the advanced stages of your life, and after rephrasing the memories in a book, you will get a literary autobiography book, like the book “I” by Al-Aqqad.