How do I make my children obey me?

Speak to them appropriately

In order to raise children to obey, you must make them listen to what is being dictated to them, and that is by talking to them in a good manner. For example, in the event that the method of yelling is followed, the children will not pay attention to the speech addressed to them, and this may have harmful effects on them, such as increased aggression and low self-esteem. When talking to children, pay attention to the following:

• making sure that they hear the hadeeth addressed to them; Children under the age of 14 do not necessarily intend to ignore the conversation addressed to them; Sometimes they just don't realize what's going on around them, and if it's a small child it's better to kneel in front of him to get eye contact; Talking to him face to face facilitates communication and attracts their interest, and it must be taken into account to speak to them in a clear and uncomplicated manner so that they can understand what is required of them.
• After making sure that the children hear, they can be asked to do something. If they respond to that, then this is a good thing, but if they do not respond, they can be asked again, and follow some additional steps such as explaining the reason for asking them, and helping them understand the rules and laws that are dictated to them. For example, the impact of their behavior on others can be explained, or what will happen if they are late in getting dressed. such as being late to meet friends, and in the event that it does not work, there is nothing wrong with leaving the natural consequences to take their course, such as getting the feet wet in the water when not wearing shoes, or not washing their clothes because they kept them in the bedroom.

Show them respect

Children are affected by what is going on around them. If they act negatively in front of them, they will deal with things in the same way, and therefore children must be treated with respect, so that they respond in the same way.

Offer them the reward

When children obey their parents, it is good that they be rewarded with something small. Like taking them to the movies, or giving them extra time to play with friends, this would encourage them to be positive.