Sayings of Ibrahim al-Feki

Dr. Ibrahim Al-Feki

Ibrahim al-Feki - may God have mercy on him - is a man who needs no introduction, so there is no one among us who has not heard of him. He is a pioneer in the science of neuro-linguistic programming and in the science of human development in the entire Arab world. He holds a Ph.D. in metaphysics from the United States of America, and is the author of Neuroadaptive Dynamics and the Science of Human Energy. He had a great influence on our youth, as he is a contemporary man with a contemporary vision who simulated reality with his achievements and bright ideas. Here we put some of his sayings, wisdom and ideas:

The rule of Ibrahim al-Faqi

We see what we do not want and want what we do not see, so we lose the value of what we see and get lost in the mirage of what we do not see. Be careful not to lose the value of what you see.
If it were not for the opposite of the meaning, the meaning would not have meaning.
There are things, people, and even parts that go with us on the journey of our lives for a specific purpose and for a specific period, and not to accompany us throughout the journey, so it is time to leave them alone.
There are times when we feel that it is the end, then we discover that it is the beginning, and there are doors that we feel closed and then we discover that it is the real entrance.
When you don't know what to do, your real work begins, and when you don't know which way to go, your real journey begins.
If it were not for my challenges, I would not have learned, and if it were not for my misery, I would not be happy, and if it were not for my pain, I would not have rested, if it were not for my illness, I would not have healed, if it were not for my loss, I would not have existed, if it were not for my failure, I would not have succeeded, and if it were not for my realization, I would not have become.
What you see in your life now is only a reflection of what you did in the past, and what you will do in the future is nothing but a reflection of what you do now.
Our lives are occupied with unnecessary disagreements, because our minds are filled with unnecessary thoughts, so we live a life without meaning, and in fact.. unnecessary.
We can lose what we fear losing.
When we blame others, we become their victims, justify our actions towards them, and give them part of the moments of our lives that could be the last.
What seemed painful, I found comfortable, what seemed sad, I found joyful, what seemed difficult, I found easy, and what seemed like failure, I found success, and what seemed dark, I found bright, and I learned not to look at things from their appearances.
When you lose hope, you lose desire, when you lose desire, you lose vision, and when you lose vision, you lose life, and we live lost in the mirage of hope.
Work without hope leads to the loss of work, and hope without work leads to disappointment. The happiness of work is found with hope, and the splendor of hope is found in work.
You can control yourself by controlling your thoughts.. When the power of thoughts decreases, accordingly the strength of the feelings resulting from them decreases, and you can do that by putting challenges in their natural place and not giving matters greater than their size because the mind deals with the thoughts you determine, and thus Feelings are emitted according to the thoughts you have identified, and as long as the feelings are balanced because they stem from thoughts that are not exaggerated, you will deal with them faster and easier.
Be the initiator of greeting and peace, there is an honorable hadith that says, “The best of them is the one that begins with peace”... Do not wait for others, and start with yourself.
If you look around you well, you will find that the real challenge in life is to change yourself and become the person you want to be, exploit your potential and live a happier life. And your abilities and waste your time.. Instead, try to focus your life on changing your lifestyle, and start drawing the necessary energy from the stock of hidden positive capabilities stacked inside you and exploit your potential energy to become the person you wanted to be.
It does not reduce the hardness of being a brilliant marble and polished.
The quickest way to make enemies is to never stop complaining to your friends.
Forgive your enemies, but never forget their names.
Do not ignite the fire, unable to extinguish it.
Do not be sad about what is in life, for we were not created in it except to be tested and tested until God sees us. Are we patient? Therefore, take it easy and do not be discouraged, and make sure that the relief is near. If the clouds become darker.. then it will rain in a short time.
If people attack you when you are right.. or criticize you.. rejoice that they are telling you that you are successful and influential, as a dead dog does not kick or throw anything but fruitful trees.
The more flexible person can control his feelings and achieve his goals more than the person who does not have flexibility. This is because if a flexible person thinks in a way that does not lead him to the path he wants, then he thinks in a different way until he reaches the required results and achieves his goals. The mechanism for living a better life is balance, discipline, persistence in achieving goals, access to vision and flexibility in method, then patience and trust in God Almighty.
Thoughts have more power than you can imagine, they either take you to happiness or to unhappiness, and in both cases you are the creator of these thoughts, so notice carefully what you think because your thoughts will determine the reality of your life now and your future tomorrow, so the more your thoughts are positive and constructive, the more you will live a successful and happy life Negative, you are far from achieving anything positive in your life.
Wake up in the morning and you are happy... The day comes to some and they say, “Good morning, Dunya,” while others say, “What is this… Why did the day come to us again so quickly?”!! Beware of negative thoughts that may come to your mind in the morning, as they can program your whole day with negative feelings, focus your attention on positive things, and start your day with a healthy view of things.
Keep an attractive smile on your face...even if you don't feel that you want to smile, pretend to smile, as the subconscious mind cannot differentiate between the real thing and the unreal thing, so it is better to decide to smile constantly.
Be a good listener...know that this is not always easy, and it may take some time to get used to it, so start from now...do not interrupt anyone while he is speaking...and show interest.... And be a good listener…