proper upbringing
Most of a child's actions are aimed at getting the attention of those around him, and in most cases he acts in an increasingly deliberate manner in an attempt to assert his independence. These actions should not be taken as disobedience and dealt with harshly. We must understand the reasons for the naughty child and be patient when dealing with him. Naughty, moody, and nervous are all qualities in children that we will learn to deal with through the following points:
How to deal with a naughty child
- Do not say no and be silent: when you notice the child that he is doing wrong behavior, do not tell him not to do that without providing him with any explanation of why and what consequences will occur if he does that wrong behavior, and do not suffice with the explanation only, you must give alternatives to him by mentioning alternative positive actions Bad act and leave him the freedom of choice.
- Depriving him of his favorite things: As a means of punishing the bad behavior he committed, we take away his favorite toys or prevent him from watching his favorite program, and explain the reason for this punishment to the child and that this deprivation was caused by a bad behavior that he did and should not be repeated, and if this behavior is repeated, he will have a similar punishment.
- Weekly Achievement Schedule: Many mothers use a schedule containing the days of the week and a stamp to motivate the child to do more good behavior throughout the week. On the day the child is polite, we put a stamp next to him, and at the end of the week we count the number of good behavior stamps and present a simple reward to the polite child. The best way to adjust the behavior of the child.
- Enhancing the child's self-confidence: by encouraging him when he performs a good behavior on his own, he must be praised and praised by this behavior. We strengthen the child's self-confidence by choosing between good and bad behavior.
- A good example for the child: the child imitates those around him from an early age. He begins to imitate his mother, father, and siblings. Therefore, the parents must pay close attention to this point. Whatever the child sees, he stores it in his mind to implement it when the opportunity gives him that, and he will not see any objection to executing the command if he sees those around him doing so. Behaving whether it is good or bad, for example, if he sees his mother feeding the cat, he will feed her as well, but if he sees his mother hitting the cat, he will hit her, and so he will do the rest of the various other things.
- Finally, learning from childhood is like engraving on a stone. Teach your children good behavior from an early age, so that they can build a better future for themselves.
